OK, so I tried to add the sitemap because it can place a site higher in searcher and spiders love them. I did all the stuff you are supposed to do. Installed it. uninstalled it. Re-installed it. then I happened to notice there is a little box that says "hidden." Could this possible be the issue? I unchecked it and voila, there was the site map! LOL! Learning new stuff is SO much fun!!